Good thread Heaven! I'm interested in reading all the different posts.

I think I'd be devastated if DD weaned around 12mths.... I am really hoping to go til 18mths, if not up to 2yrs... we are really enjoying it especially after all our early problems in the first 4mths.... BF'ing only really kicked off for us from 3/4mths mark!

Before I had DD, i had it in my head that I would wean my babies off when I was done but now I'm not so sure I could do that....

I too, don't know anyone IRL who let their babies wean off themselves.... most friends or family only BF for about 7-9mths. (on average) then they said they got sick of it.