Oh hun, . If Jazzy is happy, and you're happy, then don't worry about anyone! She's just a baby, really, and it's no one's business anyway. I totally get where you're coming from, I went through very similar stuff, and feeling uncomfortable with the demand feeding in public. But I decided to get over it, and after about 18 months DS didn't feed much during the day anyway (nights were another story LOL!).
It's okay to change your goalposts too.....lots of breastfeeding mums do. I was one of them, if you'd told me when I was pg that I would feed my DS until past 2 years I would have said that was GROSS . Many mums think they'll feed to 6 months, or 12 months, but anything beyond that 'just isn't for them'. But when they get there, they find that it feels wrong to wean their baby, just because of a time limit (usually imposed by society). It seems that mum and baby/toddler are happiest when left to their own devices . You guys have done a brilliant job, just keep on doing what feels right for Jazz. I can promise you that this time will be over SO quickly. I thought DS would never wean, that we'd be tandem feeding etc, and them BAM he just did it, when I least expected it! Enjoy for now hun, and try not to let the rellies get you down. Education is fantastic, if it's something you're comfortable with. But if not, just feed in any discreet way that makes you relaxed .
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