I would think that he would wean himself off the night feeds again once he feels more settled. I don't let DS feed through the night now, but I know he can resettle just by being next to me. If it was screaming sessions.. I'd be quick to give him the boob back through the night.

Yes, he will wean himself one day! Unless you plan on feeding him on his 21st? heheh.

As for AF - it's normal for AF to be gone that long, I doubt it warrants visiting a GP. Jump in the TTC while breastfeeding thread.. some have been able to chart & fall pg without AF (I think!)

Dunno if any of that helps. Good luck with TTC when you decide to go for it