I just wanted to say that I admire the way you look at others with their opinions and I agree with you 100% I had a friend that would judge me when ever I spoke to her for not being a working mum but have since realised that she is actually very insecure that I am happy being an at home mum and she is not iukwim I think I am being confusing but I supose in a way she is a little threatened by the way I love it and she doesnt.