It may have been an Opps....but dont let anyone make you feel ashamed or anything. DD was an Opps.....she was planned...but not planned for so soon. I know thats a different case to yours.... but i had soe many people ask me 'So was she planned'? That hurt me....whats it to them whether she was or wasnt planned.... same goes for you honey. This is your life....

So please dont feel ashamed in saying 'No bubba wasnt planned but we will raise him/her the same way as if it was planned'.

You are your own person.. and NO one should judge you for your actions. All the best for your pregnancy....