Thanks guys - it has been great to know that other people feel the same -whether they are younger or not and that people also get the opposite pressure ie pressure to have children.

My DH & I are feeling alot more confident in our choices lately and even though we are now waiting till March next year to start trying when the time comes to tell people I will not be defensive of our decision.

Belly Belly has helped alot in this regard. Just chatting with other people has reinforced the fact that it is our life and our choices and only we have to be happy with them.

Once again thanks for your responses!!