Mel and Min I am exactly the same with my IL's. Mel I ended up saying to them just before I had Ryley- Look i dont trust you, the way things are going i dont want you to ever look after my baby and I find it uncomfortable being around you. This caused HUGE HUGE arguments (i emailed it to them- not to their face- bot of a coward) but now they are awesome because they know that DH and I love each other andf Ryley was concieved in love and that if they want to see him they need to bend a little too.

Well I can safely say that all is working out- but has totally changed since Ryley has been born. Try and lay some ground rules and let them know they've hurt you. They might suprise you. (oh and by the way- My Mum was one psyched Nanna too and she still is! She has a brtag book she shows everyone- she even showed the chick at the petrol station!!)