Grr! GET A JOB!

[PumpkinZulu]

I'm not really sure if this is the right place but it doesn't seem to fit anywhere else either....

DF wants another baby. He tells me all the time. And TBH so do I! I'm a bit apprehensive about my ability to care for another as DS takes so much of my time (read: all of my time) as it is, but I'm sure I could make it work. After all many others do it.

The problem is that we *still* live with DF's parents! He doesn't have a job and is doing the bare minimum required by centrelink to get one. He just doesn't care! I HATE living with his parents, I HATE living off centrelink, I HATE living week to week and wondering where our next meal is going to come from!

I'm sick of it and now he wont shut up about having another baby.

So DF- If you want another baby so badly GET OFF YOUR ASS AND GET A JOB SO WE CAN AFFORD THE CHILD WE HAVE!!

The end.

Tell him that...exactly that! Come on man, GET A JOB (show him that hehe).

Tell him it's not realistic to be living at his parents, with two babies, and no money. I'm sure for one baby it's not very realistic for you Sounds like he needs to broaden his mind a bit when it comes to the job-seeking and pull his finger out a bit. Yes, it IS hard to get jobs atm if you're unskilled and over a certain age...but it's sooo not impossible.

[allycat06]

Oh wow how irritating! If he is going to sit on his butt at home and be fussy about jobs couldn't he at least make the effort to go get his forklift license or some other kind of ticket/qualification so he can find a decent job?

If it were me I'd be saying no sex for you until you get a job and we get our own place. THEN we can have another. See if that gets him moving LOL