I know what you mean. *hugs* I don't really get them now but when i had Lily when i was 18 boy did i cop it. Mostly just the looks but the comments were sometimes aweful. Like, 'i suppose she was an accident then?' Well maybe so but she is very much loved all the same! Or even, 'i bet it's tough being a single mother' This one just left me gobsmacked! for one, her dad was still with me(just at work) and now we're happily married thankyou very much! but also to make a comment like that, to a total stranger? Some people need a reality check i think!