that was a very rushed reply... I was very "put out" but ever since she got pregnant she''s been almost pushing advice on people. She didn't want any advice from anyone and told everyone to keep their noses out, which is fair enough, but now she is doing what she didn't want done to her! This may sound very biased, But my Brendan is better behaved and a much happier baby than my cousin. I fed on demand and till he was full, I never regimented a schedule as such, I work around him, feed him when hes hungry, let him sleep when he's tired. brendan has been sleeping through the night since 4-5 months old, I mean doing 12+hrs, he sleeps 2-3 hrs between feeds during the day also. My cousin is 11 months and still doesn't sleep through the night, she only gets fed at set times during they day and only gets fed a certain amount. Therefore is mostly grumpy and whingy, because shes still hungry! She's made to sleep a set times during the day. this may work for others, but my point is I don't tell her what she should do or how to raise her child, I don't judge her because she waited until 34.