Thanks... thanks for sharing your story.

Thanks for the suggestion of temping as well. We used temping as a way of avoiding pregnancy early in our marriage (first 6 months), so I have done it before... and don't like it! I started temping 6 months before we got married, so I would know what my cycles would be like... however, in all that time, there was only one cycle that showed O. It's silly when I look back... I just thought it was normal not to O every cycle!! Silly girl... should have gone to doc straight away, but at that stage was still getting cycles in the low to mid 30's (ie. still pretty regular), so I just thought it was normal not to O every cycle - and also thought some of it was because of inaccuracies with the temping method - ie. taking it at a different time, or disturbed sleep etc.

I too believe that God has everything in control and knows what's best for us. It still hurts when I think of our dreams for a baby, for a family at a young age (I know we are still young, but I mean at an age younger than we are now), but I can see that God has been using this time to grow us in our relationship with him and with one another... and if we do get preggers, I just think we will be better parents as a result of the enormous struggle it will have been to get there.

All the best to you too.