hugs hun! I know what that is like. My mum is soooo supportive and happy with all her grandbabies, I was 19 with my first, my sister was 20 with hers, now shes 23 with her 2nd and single, just like I was 23 with my third and his dad and I aren't together. But these things didn't bother her at all! She was just so excited to be grandma once again lol (think it helps that she was 19 with her first, me, too!)
However both my EP parents were far from happy, very disapointed, looking at all the bad things blah blah. It's a realy pain isn't it
Best bit I can tell you from past experience, they change when bubs comes Suddenly become doting grandparents hehe Ashtons other grandparents were so excited they stuck 51 photos of him all over their fridge haha