SS Storm - my mum was OK with it, but her sister decided to ask me if DS was planned - and my mother stuck up for her! An understandable question, apparently! I was 25, married and mortgaged! Sort of expected I thought, at least it was to my dad's side who were all really thrilled for me.

My parents are in their early 50s and fantastic grandparents (now we've straightened a few things out, such as I am the Mummy!). DS knows his great grandad M and great grandma H. PiL are in their mid-60s and RUBBISH grandparents (great PiL though) because they just don't do anything with us.