tamara - if i could have - in part of my lofes plan i was to pop babies out at 23 - i didn't want to be an older mum (no offense intended - just my own perception) now we have been trying and can't be pg i worry that i may have to be after all - don't listen to other people if you can avoid it doll - its not worth it - its your life and just think when your in your late forties you can travel and enjoy life then as the kids will be gone....