Tamara, i get this too and we arent even ttc. I dont think youre too young, or selfish at all for not wanting to trvael, and i think its great your parents are supportive. Its such a personal thing, and no one else can tell you that you are or arent ready or that you should travel, or whatever other things people tell you ... People tell me "you should travel" and "wait at leat 5 years" and other stupid things like that. My cousin likes to whinge at me and say "wait till youre at least 25, go overseas and have a life, but i just say that i have never really wanted to go overseas, so why bother? My theory to this is that people think of themselves when they were 22 and think they would never have been able to manage a baby then and that they would have prefered to travel. Its wierd how things have changed - when my mum was my age, it was normal for women to have had one or ttwo children, but now heaps of women wait till they are around 30.... I hope you get some more support from the other people you know. I would never dream of telling someone they should not TTC. How rude.