Im sure its a common problem, but its one im not liking.
I just feel that hubby is 'just not that into me' anymore!
Just wondering if there is a way to bring back the spark in a r/ship?
When we were dating everything was very lovey... we've been together for 5 years.. so its not like we dont know eachother well or anything..
We were having LOTS of sex all through that time and he wrote me letters etc.. all the sweet things.. but ever since i got pregnant, had bubs, i just feel as though he's not that interested in the sex, and the lovey-ness anymore.
Im back at my prebaby weight, he says he loves me still (we got married after bubs have a house etc) so i know its not a 'love' issue, but its frustrates me that he isnt very affectionate & i feel as though i have to force affection from him! Hes never been overly affectionate, but even when im the one giving the affection he gets annoyed cos he doesnt want it. Its upsetting me, and everytime i say something about it, he gets annoyed cos he reckons i keep going on about the same thing! but nothing fixes it! If he wants sex i gladly give t to him, but when want it, he's usually not too interested so i dont bother anymore.. then he complains. argh, men are confusing! he says he loves my affectionate ways.. bu then he gets annoyed!! Grr!! No, hes not having an affeir lol.. i know that for sure, he works 8-5 & is home on time & never goes anywhere lol... but i just wish he would iniatitae affection with me.. buy me nice stuff, give me kisses, cuddles, attention. even little things like snuggling on the couch doesnt seem to happen anymore!
Any one feel the same? Got any tips?
Has having a baby seemed to have changed the affection b/w u & partner?
Would love some advice! Its really bothering me! Cos i love...love! affection!!

Thanks