Im not in tas but luv the place n luv 2 chat as do most of us on forums! I am 21 have 2 gorgeous girls n a luving hubby, also 21. Wen i got married 2 1/2 year ago ppl were saying we would neva last more than 6 mnths but they didn't understand that maturity is a state of mind not a thing that comes necessarily with age. thankfully my parents were young wen they got married n had kids so were understanding. My main thing to get past every1 who bags younger mums is they usually dont know u as well as they think they do n that can even b family. It may be hard 2 tell ur parents th@ it's ur decision 2 have the baby n they will always b related 2 it but u never no, they mite give u a very surprising good reaction. they do! If only u could choose ur family hey!
Oh shazd i loved this!
As i lived-in with my aunty for six months at the end/start 05/06, who had a 3MO that i primarily cared for, i've had those all too disapproving stares and this gave me a giggle. I'm well aware i'm still going to cop them in six months time, but i can't wait for a day i'm out with mum's twins and look like i have three of them just so i can tell people to go an stick it where the sun don't shine.
I'm happy, does anything else matter?!?>!
It makes me so angry, how some people can assume incompetence from young parents, when me at 20, has part-studied and worked in childcare, looked after all the babies siblings and cousins and third cousins etc etc, and my 33 year old aunty had her first baby after always hating kids, and that was OK?
It's really just something to giggle and scowl about.
Last edited by The[cookie]Doctor; September 24th, 2007 at 11:03 AM.
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as do most of us on forums! I am 21 have 2 gorgeous girls n a luving hubby, also 21. Wen i got married 2 1/2 year ago ppl were saying we would neva last more than 6 mnths but they didn't understand that maturity is a state of mind not a thing that comes necessarily with age. thankfully my parents were young wen they got married n had kids so were understanding. My main thing to get past every1 who bags younger mums is they usually dont know u as well as they think they do n that can even b family. It may be hard 2 tell ur parents th@ it's ur decision 2 have the baby n they will always b related 2 it but u never no, they mite give u a very surprising good reaction.
they do! If only u could choose ur family hey!
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