He is getting anger management counselling, and is seeing a psych (as am i) Things are alot better he is accepting that PND isnt "In my head" (well it is, but you know what i mean!!) He is sick of the navy, as they haven't been suportive at all, an we are looking o move to melbourne, as he has lots of family over there (round broadmeadows, tullamarine, keilor park) but i want to move south of mel!!! We just need to get him a job somewhere, the navy will fully relocate us if we want!! Thnks for your support ladies, we still have a long way to go, but the journey has begun...