I'd be off to the drs too LJ. *sending baby dust*

Awwww Meg, we love you too!

Labour isn't that bad, if it was women would only have 1 child (or twins, ect)! It is soooo totally worth it
Here's a rant for the day:
I am so sick to death of people (FIL) telling me that my labour and birth "doesn't count" and was "easier" another good one... they tell me "I didn't feel the pain of true labour". 1st of all I had a baby and that is labour/birth, how doesn't that count???? Second of all if anything my labour was harder, my uterus had to work twice as hard to push "not a lot out" I have gotten opinions from other premmie mums who have other children and they ALL told me their premmie birth was harder. In other words it was harder for them to push their 900gm babies out and easier for them to push their 3kg baby out. I understand that a bigger baby crowning would definitely hurt (ouchies) But as far as the labour goes, contractions are contractions and its a person pain threshold that differs!! Why do people have to belittle me??? Do they not think about what they are saying, why try and make themselves look better than me? Yes their births were better than mine.... BUT they didn't "feel the pain" of seeing their newborn be resuscitated and then watching every single day their little bub was in hospital struggling to survive. But because they think I didn't feel labour pains my labour doesn't count.... may as well kill me now, my body already failed my son and I have to live with that for the rest of my life! Aaaaargh i'm so upset Who cares who much a baby weighed or if they had natural or c-sections. A baby was born and it was a beautiful (but very scary) moment. why can they not just leave me alone!
Sorry that turned into a longer rant than i thought...
Take Care