Cate, yea some frilly stuff are OTT...but yea i more meant 'girly' stuff rather than frilly. I wouldnt have that much high maintenance clothes, too much to wash and iron etc...and if DP wants it hes gotta wash and iron it himself then :P I dont really have much to splash out on either, we just have a voucher for PP, and cotton on kids arent that badly priced, id say around the price range of big w/target. Most are simple too, nothing fancy.