Younger Members Chat #2

[mum2maddieand1]

Welcome Funkeefrog! Im still friends with all of of my firends but i also find that they dont really get it. they dont understand why i cant go out with them every weekend. but ive never been a party person, ive always been happy to have a couple of friends round and have a couple of drinks rather than go night clubbing. why dont you invite them round for a couple of drinks so they can see you havent changed and your not going to change but your life is different to theirs and you still want them to be your firends.

Happy birthday Maddison!

Indi- Hope uni goes well today! no the only damage to the house is a bit of burnt carpet. but thank god, Billy is a floor installer and lays carpet and can get it really cheap so im going to tell the real estate agent we will replace the carpet ourselves. instead of having it taken out of our bond, if possible.
I also have loved the support i received when i became a young mum. i want every young mum to have so much information, lots of services and support available to them. lots of young mums feel like they are the only ones, but there are so many of us out there.

Skittlebub- yes the law is the same here, all rental houses legally have to have a smoke alarm. thats why i have been asking them. i hate renting.

Donna- cant beleive Hayley is almost 2 months. all of the bubs are growing so quick.

today im gonig to buy a lotto ticket because i feel very lucky that the fire wasnt any worse and also because i beleive it is about time that we had a bit of luck our way, maybe just a couple of grand would be nice lol. i have been feeling really depressed lately. we are having real financial problems. i feel like it was the wrong thing to have antoher baby. my car is so broken, and i have been quoted 5000 dollars to have it fixed so were going to try to fix it ourselves. yesterday scared me alot and now i feel like we shouldnt move to that house because maddie will be so far away from us. i ended up bringing her into our bed last night because she kept waking up, maybe having night mares. i feel so quilty, i should never have left a heater in her room. i thought it would be fine turning it off at the wall but obviously my monster is too smart.
well have a good day girls!
i think im going to start seeing a counsellor again, i have had depression in the past, but it feel different this time.
i have mums group today so maybe that will cheer me up.