Younger Members Chat #2

[~Serenity~]

thanx m2m i dont think u can book in for an induction they usually only do it for medical reasons or if your over by abit....

this all happened bout a week ago and hes still living here,hes sleeping on the couch though...ive tried convincing him to change his mind but hes like a 22 yr old going through a mid life crisis and nothing i do will change his mind.....
i think also him being here helps me with the money atm coz i need to get back with a few bills... but i think im mostly worried about being alone and the money...and im one of those jealous ex's that wont let him have his gf anywhere near my kids so ive already told him he can see them whenever he wants when he leaves but he will have to come to my house to see them.....lol..im also scared i will always be alone and get end up a ct lady or something lol coz i figure no other guy is gonna want a chick with 4 kids and the body to match

[mum2maddieand1]

aww. sounds like you are being very brave. remember we are all here for you if you need to chat or vent. my partner and i went through the same kind of thing this time last year. i found it very hard to cope with. i begged and begged and begged and showed him i wasnt what he thought i was and in the end he realised he would be making a mistake to throw it all away. we had just had a miscarriage so we were under a bit of stress aswell.
now everything is back to normal or even better so i hope you guys have the same result.

[alioops]

does any one know..... you know how you can get a cesarean booked before your due date. are you able to book for an induction before your due date? i dont want a c-section but just wondering if i can have a planned induction. lol.

Honestly hun, Unless you are going private it is very difficult!!! I have jumped through SOOOOOOOOOOO many hoops and they are only doing it 5 days early. But the way things are going now I might not make it to Monday. It really is more work than it is worth to ask for them to bring it on early unless there are extenuating circumstances, and then it is still really hard.

Heavenly I think there are a few going through that early - mid 20's crisis at the moment. I hope things do get better for you hun

[Daydream Believer]

Amy - we'll have a party for Maddi with our friends & people we know coz she probably wont have another "party" as such until shes in kinder

[Alyssas_Mum]

Oooh busy in here last night eh? lol

Amy- why do u want to be induced?? if u dont mind me asking... And i love the name Cooper John, its very nice goes better than any of the others.

Sally- OMG Maddie is almost 1......where did time go? GL with her 1st birthday
Charli is also getting up onto furniture and scooting along, she is just too clever that kid. lol. I can't wait for her to walk but at the same time i dont want her to and i want her to stay my baby forever.

Heavenly- sorry to here bout your situation, you'd be suprised how many guys are out there that dont care about the stretch marks and love kids so dont worry bout that you'll find someone else. I hear ya on the new GF with ur kids, when DP and i broke up several yrs ago i was super jealous, i knew alyssa wouldnt love anyone else more than me but i didnt even want her to like anyone else. luckily DP never saw anyone else while we were apart.

[mum2maddieand1]

hi girls,

Kirra- it was wasnt that i wanted to be induced it was more that i was just seeking my options. my doctor wants me to have a planned c-section so i was thinking i could meet him halfway with a planned induction lol. dont worry have been researching it all very thoroughly over night and have decided im just going to try to go into labour on my own, hopefully i wont get pre-eclampsia or anything again and i will be able to do it on my own!
thanks for the response though girls.

Alioops- whats happening? are you having contractions? is your water broken? omg by tuesday there will be another baby on here. that all came soooo quickly. i remember when you announced that you were pregnant!

i have been getting lots of tummy pains today. similiar to period pain but a little different. im not worried but im going to the doc on monday to check everything and i need to book in for my ultra sound anyway.

hope you all have a great weekend!

[Alyssas_Mum]

Oh i didnt know u had a c-sec with maddy. Hopefully you can do it naturally if you want to, its so much easier with recovery etc. I think if u r going to try for a VBAC they will not induce you unless u go way over or complications arise as inducing ppl give a higher chance of c-sec (so i have heard anyway) I hope u get the birth u want though whatever that mayb be

[alioops]

m2m - Lets hope your BP stays perfect then

Have had some niggles but nope, I am still pg. Doubt I'll get much sleep tonight though, might be too excited. Waters will be artificially broken at about 7am tomorrow if the hospital is organised.

[~Serenity~]

alioops how very exciting.....just wondering if you have any advice for when you first started gettinng spd in how to make it get worse slower if that makes sense...i had it with my last two aswell but im already getting sore to walk and put pants and shoes on etc...i convinced dh to stay for an extra 2 weeks to help me get sorted but i might have to tell him to stay if it gets worse....

stayed out last night til midnight havent dont that in ages its a once every year occurance lol but i was the singstar champ...however i was the only sober adult there....
also they were all trying to give him a lecture but he still wont change his mind

[alioops]

If you have a support belt - Put it on. Get a physio referral and try to rest as much as possible. No lifting (yeah right, like you can really avoid it with toddlers )!

[Alyssas_Mum]

GL Allioops, not that u'll need it

Heavenly- congrats on being the singstar champ, i think i'd break windows with my voice. haha

[mum2maddieand1]

Alioops- omg im so excited for you! just think tomorrow night there could be some news!
well i dont hink there is any news here.
were pretty boring.
hope you all had a good weekend.

[mum2maddieand1]

Congratulation alioops on Leah annabel! hope all went well! looking forward to hearing how it all went!

Sally had a little boy at 10.04 this morning.
so exciting!

Why is it so quiet in here these days?

[trini246]

wow i only just found this new thread i am here girls!

Hello to all the newbies im Trini (22) mummy to Alexys nearly 7 months where has the time gone!

i will catch up a little later when i am more alert as im really tired for some reason

nice to meet you all!

BTW CONGRATS SAL <3

[Alyssas_Mum]

Congrats Sal Can't wait to see pics.

Anybody heard from allioops??? Hopefully shes got her lil bub too.

Alyssa's first dancing concert is tonight I'm so excited. Although DP is dreading it cause he gets to stay home with grumpy charli. lol

[lauren22]

alyssa's mum ali had a little girl named Leah
she was itsy bitsy but shes lovley and healthy along with ali her BA is somewhere too

[alioops]

Kirra - Yep I am here, Leah is 5 days old and smaller than Sally's little man.

Sally - Congrats hun, he will be out of SCN in no time hun He is a fighter

Trini - Had been wondering where you got to!! How is Alexys going?

[Alyssas_Mum]

Aww congrats, thats so awesome.

Alyssa's concert was AWESOME, she was so beautiful and she did sooo well, not being bias cause im her mum but she was the best in her group