I know you didn't mean to hurt or offend anyone. You're not that sort of person

You are right too, that everyone is fighting their own battles. I'm having a moody, fragile day too I have just had another bfn and I am really struggling with positivity.
Anyway, I think some FS / clinics really don't provide an accurate assessment of the situation to patients. Some of the things I read that FS have said to BB members about their chance of success shock me. Some clinics (IMO) peddle false hope. I am sorry you feel you weren't given a true sense of how you might fare during your treatment. Setting couples up with false hope is cruel