Hi nicoleh,

I have only been through one IVF cycle so far (I'm now waiting to have my lap and then start my next ICSI) so I can't really help out in regards to experiences. All I can say is that what you're feeling is normal, it's a total rollercoaster. When I found out that my first one failed I was devastated but one thing I tried to focus on was with each cycle we try we learn that little bit more about our cycles and that in turn takes us one more step closer to that long awaited BFP.

Good luck with this cycle, my fingers are crossed for you

Oneday86 - It's great to hear that all of this is strengthening your relationship. That's the same for me and DH too - I keep telling myself that if we can get through this then we can get through anything! Good luck with your tests