abj, everything the girls said this i find is the hardest thing for me, i work with lots of women too and some are pregnant or just had babies! everyone at my work knows my situation and are really good but it is very hard to be happy for everyone when we are all going through so much. I don't really know how i cope with it, i do try and block alot of it out or just tell my self i will appreciate our baby so much more for what we are going through. I was best friends with a girl at work but no longer anymore, i found out she was pregnant to the guy she had only just started dating that month! she said i wasn't supportive of her, I prob sound like a complete B*tch but i said all the right stuff and it still wasnt good enough! how did she expect me to jump for joy with everything im going through especially when she never cared about my journey? One thing i can tell you is i have learnt who my true friends are since going through IVF, this same girl sat there and talked about miscariages in front of mr in the staff room for half an hour when i had just lost my baby 1/2 a week before hand, some people are horrible. So sorry for the long story but dont feel bad for feeling a little upset of others you have every right, just try and deal with it the best you can. Goodluck xx