Most of us can relate to this!

My hubby has been experiencing health problems for some time now and our only hope of conceiving at the moment is through ICSI. We are both desperately wanting to become parents and my hubby would be a great dad and it is just devestating to see the hurt in his eyes, especially when we hear yet another family member or friend is 'having a baby'.
Ofcourse we are always absolutely thrilled for them & if we are struggling to directly show them how happy we are for them, then we send them a card and present instead. Unfortunately this does not always work. I now realise that there is always going to be that selfish friend that only cares about her pregnancy news & doesn't want to be burdened by your problems.... as I found with my best friend of >20 years - we have been totally honest with them about us having to do IVF/ICSI, but she was still totally heartless when she told us about her pregnancy news & then went around telling people that we were not even excited about their baby news! So hurtful!
I hope you never experience this, as it was absolutely soul destroying & I so deperately need/want support as we have just commenced our first cycle of ICSI, but I am now totally reluctant to discuss with friends/family, as I am scared that they think I am 'burdening them with our problems'.

Some people say it is a good idea to remove yourself from people that are pregnant or who have babies during IVF/ICSI ... then other people have told me to surround myself with people who are pregnant and have babies/children... what is the best advice do you think??????