Welcome back. While not IVF, I'm doing OS after already having two girls. I'm getting a few comments about going to "those lengths" for another baby. After multiple miscarriages trying for #3 I'm also getting negative comments and lots of "why bother" comments.

I don't think there is anything rational or logical about why we want more children. Its something inside us and if your family isn't done, then its not done. I've just turned 41 so I hear you on the time running out thing. I hope there are big fat sticky BFPs for both of us very soon. Good luck.