Hi oneday
I'm so sorry once again. I agree with marcellus its a personal decision and you have to do whats best for you. After my miscarriages I went back almost straight away. I have 2 DD (conceived through IUIs) but in the last 12 months have had 3 mc (2 ectopic, 1 after food poisoning ) . I only waited maybe one or two weeks after each one but as I don't have a cycle I never had to wait a whole month for another AF to come. For me the thought of having a break was worse than trying again so I felt that it was best for me to keep trying. I have heard many stories about women being more fertile after a miscarriage and falling pg the following month and carrying baby to full term.

I don't want to worry you, our stories of hcg levels and spotting sound a little similar, my situation is hopefully different, but just in case.... With my last pregnancy (the ectopic one where I had my tube removed) I knew something was wrong, my levels were doubling but slowly, then they started dropping (390ish to 375ish), I also had some cramping pains and spotting, my FS said I would MC, and although I had some bleeding I never had a proper AF. A week later I made them re-do my blood test as I felt pg, my levels were over 1080. Then next day I had the emergency surgery as the pain got much worse!

I hope you can come to a decision that you feel peaceful about, its a hard time and will be thinking of you. Don't be too hard on yourself.