Hi Mel

Welcome to BB

It is not unusual for embies to not survive the thaw. Do you know what day they were when they were frozen?

Lots of people don't even get any to freeze in the first place so it is a good sign that you had any that were good enough to freeze.

Put your energy into thinking positive thoughts about the one that is growing well. It does only take one after all.

Don't worry about spotting from the pessaries - they aren't nice things and can irritate easily - I have had spotting every time I have used them.

Good luck with you transfer today - remember to take care of yourself afterwards and relax.