Ocean princess, thanks for that. It is a timely reminder. I do think I do that sometimes. I am sure we all do, but I know right now she needs it to be about her, when we are talking about her and there is enough space in our friendship for when it is my turn to talk about where I am at to just do that too. So thanks I will try to be mindful and use that technique. Communication is so important, and I don't want to screw this up.