Wishing you the very best of luck..my best advice try to keep your chin up, do the best for your body in between cycles and when you are in a cycle get in here and talk to the other girls it will keep you focussed even on the bad days..there is an older girls group with lots of older mums and mums to be, that might help??? lots have been through and are currently in IVF...
Finally I have a 1 year old and i am 44years old....so its possible...chin up, hugs and best wishes
I really appreciate these words of encouragement - thank-you so much! I feel so alone with this sometimes. I always imagined getting pregnant poetically (man, woman, the flush of romantic love), and it's hard to know that I can't expect that when so many can (even those who aren't ready or willing to take care of a child). It's a relief to know that there are so many other women out there who experience the frustration and pain of infertility too. And it's especially nice to know other women my age ARE getting pregnant. I hope that the universe can give me that. That would be the best 40th birthday present ever!
Im with you too lumnescent. Im turning 40 in October. We have been trying for our 2nd since Sept 2009 and found out DH has zero sperm count....told we were an FS's dream couple.....no real issues except DH'd blockage...so we should be really positive.....well two full stim cycles and a total of six transfers (2 fresh 4 frozen) I have had one MC and 2 chemicals.....The dream of a baby just seems so far away.
I am trying to eat well and be healthy but Im just so depressed by the whole situation it leads me to sabotage myself....then I feel worse and its a cycle I am having trouble breaking.
I am trying to tell myself that nothing is really going to change just because a date comes and goes.....and my FS is still confident its just a matter of time...I just wish I could believe him.
Goodluck with getting your health back on track and your future cycle....
just adding our FS said that we would get preg very easy. we had one fresh and 5 frozen all with BFN before we did the next cycle and finally got the BFP. after the first full stim and all the BFN's i wanted to give up !. but the FS said i wasn't giving it a chance. it took me 2 years after last BFN before i could do it again emotionally.
Just wanted to wish you all the best. I hope that acupuncture is a help to you, my Sister used it to help her when she was having IVF and she believes it really made a difference. I hope things work out for you.
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