Hi Danyelle,

Just want to say I am sorry for the pain you are going through. I know it all too well. I wanted to give you some hope too. I had a chem pregnancy (on an FET though - I have had two fresh transfers without any success) and then the very next transfer I got a positive! I am now 24 weeks. To help cope with the chemical pregnancy I kept reminding myself that a chemical pregnancy meant at least now I knew I could actually get pregnant. I found this helped a lot.

The chem preg cycle was the one I started taking half an aspirin a day if that helps. I kept taking it until the next cycle when we got the positive. I had done a range of implantation tests prior to doing this which showed me to be ever so slightly positive for Anti-Cardiolipin Antibodies, which is why the FS put me on aspirin.

I hope this helps!

Lilyx

PS I am also 39 with PCOS.