Meredith,

thanks so much for your detailed post, i saw the specialist today, she basically said the miscarriages are just one of those things and she doesn't know why they are happening. i mentioned my list of questions, she didn't really believe in the idea of NK cells but said she would refer me to dr Sacks if i wanted to.

she suggested a lap saying 10-20% of people find a problem that way but i think that would be more for people who haven't been able to fall pregnant not those who can but can't hold onto the pregnancies.

i asked about ivf and again she didn't think that was a solution as the problem isn't getting pregnant and she didn't think it would change the outcome of the pregnancy

so the bottom line is i declined the lap and we are at the point of deciding whether to try ourselves or calling it quits

i have never had any of the pregnancies tested so don't know about chromosome testing but we are both going to get blood tests done just in case


so sorry about all your losses and good luck ttc #3