okay, feeling much better with all the support from you guys. thanks heaps.

DH came home and also seemed disappointed - for me more than himself I think - but kinda nice. I left the letter where he couldn't miss it by the front door so he'd just read it and I wouldn't have to say anything (and TBH (to be honest) maybe I was testing him a little

anyway.... said his boss had asked him how things were going the other day. Boss used to work on machines and equipment used for IVF (they are engineers - DH services and installs pathology equipment), and apparently he said that frozen embryos are often less successful than fresh.

dk if that is true or not. anyone know?