thanks for your replies...
first just let me say that there is no way that my gp could be close to wrong. i have all the hormonal factors pointing to pcos and have never had regular cycles and my fs was made aware of that from the beginning, i also was told by my fs that i was not ovulating naturally by myself, and still no tests were done. this is when alarm bells started ringing for me, and because of my age, i didnt feel that the clinic where doing all that they can. so as far as changing, that will definately be on the agenda for when we start again!

hopefully the next clinic doesnt give me the "but your still so young, it will happen for you eventually" excuse because as far as i am concerned, i deserve the same treatment and respect as a 45 year old!

not being rude ladies, just venting really