Hi Bronze,
The TWW is horrible and it is hard to know how to feel - am much I tried to keep them 'normal' I always found myself obsessing. I wish that there was a magic spell to make them go faster and be easier, but I dont think that there is. You just take it a day at a time and try and maintain 'normallity'.
As for success, we got our BFP on our fifth transfer - it was a FET, after two fresh and two other FET. We too had two embies put back, and have a wonderful little son.
oh sweety you poor thing,
BUT please never give up we have girls i here that have been through 15 cycles and are now pregnant ,it can happen hun stay strong and positive ,talk to your embies all the time and let them know your ready for them (might sound silly )but everything helps,rest,take it easy or just go about life as normal thats what i did after my last fet just acted normal,cleaned the house run round like a crazy lady lol and it worked
it took us 3x ivf and 2x fet so it does happen hunny hang in there.
I just wanted to say a huuugggee thank you for your replies, it helps so much to hear of others who have similar experiences, and I love to hear your success stories, gives me hope.
I have had a complete emotional rollercoaster this time around, 2 days after the FET, I cried for about 2 hours after work and I am struggling to think positively. I keep thinking that it is a neg obviously I am trying to prepare myself for the worst. I normally find that I react to the progesterone pessaries, the last 3 times I have always had sore breasts etc, but this time nothing, so confused!
But anyway enough rambling, thank you again soo much, i will not give up hope and I truly appreciate the support and the sharing!
Bronze it cna happen hun
We had success on first try to find it was suspected blighted ovumm at 8 weeks. Third try we out two back in and got our DS. I know the TWW is the worst form of torture! Wanted to wish you all the very best. Also, it you can acupuncture does amazing things for ones relaxation/stress relief. I personally believe it helped DS stick! Goodluck! Rach xx
Hey Bronze - we had two failed transfers (1 fresh, 1 frozen) before this last frosty one worked. In 8 weeks time, we'll be having our little high-tech popsicle baby. He was the last embryo stuck at the back of the freezer (like last summer's icy poles!).
I'll be honest with you. 1 week into the 2WW, and I was certain it hadn't stuck. I tearfully confessed to DH that I didn't think it had worked & I was trying to ground myself in preparation of another egg harvest. About 2 days after that, I had short bursts of nausea - but put it down to eating dodgy left overs in the fridge. Then the day before the BT, I couldn't help myself & I POS'ed. I couldn't bear being told by the nurses again, and I was willing to risk a false positive. There was a tiny pale line. No squinting required - pale, but definitely there. I couldn't tell DH or mum in case it was left over hormones from the injections. I did another POS the next morning (BT day) - and this time, showed DH - same line. if the first was a false, the second line should have been lighter still or non existant. But there it was.
The next day, I was called with the best thing I had heard all year.
I wish you the very best of luck in your journey, and I will be crossing my fingers & toes for you.
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oh sweety you poor thing,
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