Hey all you belly belly members,

I wanted to get some advise from people who may have experienced the same issue as I am going through now.

I am 25 and hubby is 28, we have been ttc 4+ years and have severe male factor infertility. After 2 years of testing, we started ivf/icsi treatments. We have had 2 failed cycles and 3 fet's. Currently we have 10 frozen embryos and hubby has also undergone corrective surgery for vericocele.

When we started, we had support of friends and family, but now, everyone is telling us we should take a break, that such intense treatments are destructive to my body and that we are still so young and have many years ahead of us to try to conceive. As much as this may be true, I have such a hard time giving up or thinking about waiting for some time before trying again. Who knows whether it will work then!

Does anyone have any advice re how long to keep trying, when to take a break, dealing with naysaying, worries about permanently damaging my reproductive cycle/ body, and when/if to change clinics, I would very much appreciate it!