It is normal to be a bit scared when starting something so new, unknown and when there is so much riding on the outcome . There are plenty of others in your situation or who have been in your situation that can give you some guidance on here. So I am glad you have posted looking for support and advice.

For me IVF is a emotionally challenging journey more than a physical one, but everyone is different, and some find it the other way around or both. I think managing your expectations and accepting that there will be moments of frustration, bewilderment, sadness, discomfort but also hopefully joy during IVF and afterwards, can help prepare and help get you through the journey the best you can.

If you don't feel you are ready for it right now, be honest with yourself and consider delaying if that is what feels like the right thing to do.

As you go through the IVF process ask as many questions as you want to of the medical professionals. It is their responsibility to help you and support you too. Don't let them fob you off if you don't feel satisfied with their answers. Some women tell their nurses to cut the bull **** and give them the facts if that is what they want.

This may be sounding a bit blunt but this has been my experience to date if that helps.

I will move this thread into the LTTTC/AC area where you may get more replies as there is more activity in there.
Good luck and ask lots of questions of us!
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