Thanks Yael, that is really interesting. I think the tradition of not talking about pg used to be very common in Christian circles too - I'm not sure how long ago, but I'm sure I've heard of it from times past. I don't think in that context it was religious though, more a manners thing, it just wasn't considered polite conversation. But I'm wondering if the origins of the tradition are the same (or similar) as for Judaism. Anyway, like the others I think it's a great idea. It must be so hard for you though when you are asked. Just a question too, how does pre-natal care fit in - obviously you discuss the pg with your medical professional(s), so I'm guessing that is ok? Or would there be some groups that would forgo ante-natal care?