Hi I have 3 boys. We are pregnant again and have been told its a girl. I will still doubt that until I am shown the girl bits. The comments that irritate me are
" Oh aren't you glad you went back for a girl"
" i bet your glad it's not another boy"
" no need for anymore children now"

I find those comments rude and upsetting. We didn't go back for a girl we went back for another child. Of course we are excited about having a little girl but seriously another boy would have been so wonderful.

I don't get the whole desire to have girls or one of each sex. To me as long as baby arrives safe and sound then thats what matters..
good luck to you and your 4 gorgeous boys. (ps I think boys are awesome )