I am so sorry to hear that so many of you are receiving negative comments in regards to how many children you have. I know I would never get those types of comments from my family. I am the eldest of 5, DH is the 2nd youngest of 5. I love my family to bits... my sisters are my best female friends. My Mum is one of ten... and I have grown up knowing my mums entire family... I am close with my 2nd cousins etc. A big family to me is the norm... I couldn't imagine a family BBQ, christmas, wedding etc where there wasn't chaos and so much laughter. I was worried about only having 2-3 children and them not having the closeness that myself and my extended family have.
I think that having a large family is great. Not only are you blessed with the beautiful children that you already have, but that you will be one day blessed with many many beautiful grandchildren too. You will also never be lonely... I know my parents and grandparents definitely aren't