Tiff, I am so sorry for your loss and I can't believe that your father said that to you. You must have been so devastated and having to cope with that on top is sooo wrong.
My heart goes out to you.You must be a strong person to be able to talk to your dad, I don't think I could forgive and forget something like that.

I agree totally, I can't wait for (a few years yet) all my children and their partners and my grandchildren to come over, especially at christmas. I t will be chaotic but absolutely wonderful.
Thanks to everyone for your support and understanding, it really helps to get it off your chest and hear others stories and opinions.
Thank you
Michelle