Larger Families Chatter September 07

[shazza]

hey guys just got back
clarissa had try outs in the rain it was so cold got to go to another next saturday so wont know for a while yet.you have been busy in here today guys .the bleedings back guys i wish i knew what was going on im definately making appt for doc on monday .castlei have been taking a multi vitamin and mineral one i got it from the chemist the other day and taking fish oil as well as my skin has gone really dry lately maybe im doing too much but hey i cant stop ive got 4 kids .i do feel a little bit stressed but i think thats cause im worried about whats going on

[*bLuE*]

Hey guys,

thank you so much Soul for my reading. it makes so much sense. I hope that you dont wear your self out this weekend doing so many of them.

Jesabell ~ you need to find out what is going on with your body.. I hope that it all clears up for you soon.

Katstribe ~ from what you wrote i does look like the sonographer found two sacks.. maybe twins after all.. he he it would be funny..

Storm and Soul ~ you two seem to have the same sense on humor.. and I smile every time i read this thread..

[storm]

Hi Castle!!

Well lets see, I am ****ed off because the girls took $20,00 to buy bird seed & brought home no change & they were gone for 2 hours??????????? And I am in hell because my house was a brothel & no little so & so's helped me fix it up. So I am mad, & Katie said I rule hell, so there you have it hahahahahahaha.

[soul]

omg lmao storm, well come on yo would laugh your butt off too if I were telling the bird seed story now wouldnt you? My kids ahve donr that too and omg I could have raised hell that day! I told them dont think I wont hunt them down till the money is back on the table in an hour, I also tell them I wnat the reciept and if they didnt get one, get back to that shop and get me one, they shat there pants and panicked and tried the "I lost it" act on me and I said oh well and here I was going to offer you a gilry night with me, dvd's and snacks, oh well bugger ya's now!!! They were kicking themselves all night! So they cleaned for me like they never jhave before, I told them that they did a beautiful job, but they aint getting paid for it, they got paid when they spent my money!

[shazza]

i feel for you storm clarissa has done that to me before now i always say i want change
at the moment she is being so rude how could a nice little girl turn into a little devil overnight bloody highschool they change so much when they go there .she has called me a iddiot today and told me to shut up and it doesnt matter how much i punish her she got this attidude i do what i want .im too soft thats my problem if only i had dh voice then i would be scary lol

[soul]

Well only we can change the way they talk to us, they dont "DO" it to us, they are "Allowed" to do it to us!If my daughter was to speak to me like that I would leave her in her bedroom all day long, no music, no nothing not even a book, solitary confinment! And have done, she would have done anyhgting to get out of there, and by the end opf the day I let her out and she tried the attitude on me, and I said fine off you go back to your room, I let her know I can play the attitude game too, she stopped quick smart! Its following through with punishment not just scare tatics cause they arn't silly, they work that one out real quick!I tell her to use her time in her room wisley and reflect on her poopy mood and how it affects everyone else in the house. No point letting them rule the roost or they will have no respect for anyone including them selves. Time out wont break there spirit, but letting them go on treating people like that will later on.

Oh you got to love teenages ha, they are at that stage where they are inbetween being a child and a young adult!

[shazza]

thanks soul ive tried the room thing and the grounded thing its like she doesnt care shes a angry little thing sometimes but somedays shes like my little girl again .i know being a 12 yr old is hard but i wont put up with her **** dont worry .i noticed your got a girl 15 do they get better with age i hope so dont tell me they get worse

[soul]

ok I wont tell ya then lmao, its that princess biatch face syndrome!There is even a book out on it called exactly that!

[*bLuE*]

Jesabell ~ im so sorry that i abandoned you in the chat.. My mum called and Dh is asking about tea.. I will chat one day this week.. I love it when i find something that i like someone needs me..

[storm]

I do the solitary confinement thing too. It a shame for Amy has she & a few of her friends planned to go to the movies, & she cleaned out Dh's work car for the money, well who is laughing now>>> ME hahahah
I am sure some time in the near future they will work out the golden rule that actions have consequences & I may be kind hearted, but I wont put up with **** either.

[soul]

wow bluey you were quick to find that chat lmaooooooooo I have been here over a year and still cant find it!

[shazza]

really soul cant you find the chat
i just cooked your pasta meal soul the one you told us about ages ago and it was so yummy jess is eating it right now she loves it as well
any more yummy dinner ideas that are quick and easy
blue thats ok i had to pick up clarissa and then start dinner so it was fine

[soul]

I cant use the chat because everytime I click on it , it crashes!

Oh goodo, I am glad the jess likes it, will see what else I can think of that we make !

Do you girls fid that your daughter/s get into a mood over absolutley nothing? One minute she is sitting with me smiling and what not then I only have to say the wrong thing and she is set of again! Drives me nuts!

[shazza]

ikwim soul i think i just have to look at her and shes in a bad mood
i wonder why iyt crashes when you go in the chat
have u downloaded the java software

[soul]

not good with computers, and DH's got pms so will ask him to morrow after I offer him a frying pan if he dont get out of his mood!I should offer him a gift voucher to be pampered! They can even powder his nose if he behaves himself!

[storm]

Rofl Soul, sounds just like mine, & if I get sick he gets sicker. Nobody has ever been sicker than my poor old DH.

[castle]

Hi girls!
Yes, my dh will say "feels weak", which means he has to lie in bed/on the lounge and eat doritos/watch tv/or just sleep.
When I feel sick, guess what?? I have to do all my same stuff anyway!
He often gets into those moods on a Sunday afternoon, esp by teatime...thinking about going to work the next day. ROFL, I don't have time to get into a mood because I go to work every day!
He and the two big boys have been watching rugby (union and league) half the day.

We have been working on the "actions have consequences" idea for oh about 10 years now...I think it takes a VERY long time to sink in. DS who is 12, has actually got a lot better over the past couple of years. He does get the hormonal adolescent thing though...and is one minute a little boy kissing my cheek, another minute shouting out some foul-mouthed stuff and stomping off to his room.
The cursing & swearing doesn't bother me personally...although I don't let him get away with it, because i think it's a bad habit for him & will get him in trouble at school or elsewhere....but my big issue now is, I DON'T WANT THE 2 YEAR OLD TO LEARN THOSE WORDS!!! You know how it is--the little ones hear it once or twice and it's their new favourite thing to say for the next three weeks.
I am working on a photobucket album to show off all my lovelies. I think it should be up tomorrow.

[storm]

Oh so true Castle, Zaccie's new fav word is compliments of Dylan!! Who went to kiss my cheek the other night & I told him no, way, with the foul language that comes out of there, you expect to kiss your mother, ha ha ha he did anyway!! Him swearing doesn't really bother me either, but, like you, it's the little ones who pick it up, Zac told the doctor the other day when she was checking his chest that is was F>>ing cold, it's tooooo much for me lol.I can only imagine what the dr thought