Yo Kittykat - things sound a bit rough there. maybe you guys need a neutrel friend to talk things over with. Live is crazy with kids and hubby but I try to remember that marriage is longer term than kids. The kids will leave home in a few years and then you are stuck with just you and you DH for another 30 years or so alone!!! If my marriage is good everything else usually falls in place. Me and my hubby still have weekly date nights! Usually its something simple like putting the kids to bed early then hiring a dvd and eating cheescake!! Every now and then we get a babysitter and go out. It makes a week easier to cope with knowing that I have Tuesday night date night to look forward to. I hope this helps and I'll pray for you.

Bree