kittykat i was a bit like u when my baby was born but it does get easier shes now 14 months and also i have 12 10 9 and all girls which sometimes makes it harder.but i think once you get organzied which is very hard to do im still getting there it makes u life a bit easier .my partner works in the mines so hes hardly ever here so thats makes it harder most of the time i feel like a single parent .anyway it nice to stay in your pjs especially with all these cold days lately.try to get out of the house whenever u can cause sometimes if u are at home all the time it can make things worse .