Tiff- hope you can get it all sorted. I didn't realise that after tubal lit you could bleed and stuff, is that a typical thing that happens?

I too think I wouldn't know when to stop if I kept going lol, and as much as I would like to say money is irrelevant, it isn't, eventually you have to take into consideration the fact that you have to be able to feed and clothe your kids and live the lifestyle you want to live. I think that is a major pat of why we decided not to have more too, cos we want to live comfortably and atm I am at home not working. If we have more kids I would def have to work.

Maz hope everything is ok, and wow at your psychic FIL PMSL