Susie- good luck with everything, sometimes I think it does come down to respecting your self and choosing what is best for you. You can't let people walk all over you and make you miserable forever. It is so hard to find the right guy! Who knows if there is such a thing! We have our ups and downs too, just like most people, I guess in the end it does depend on how you are treated as to what you decide. This is prob the best decision for you and your kids.

I have boundaries on totally unacceptable behaviour and if it got to that I would be doing what you are now, thankfully for us it has never got that bad but we both know what will happen in certain circumstances and we can decide from there how we will behave Iguess. I couldn't live with DH if I knew he had cheated and visa versa, and we both know that.

Wee Jessica's bday is tomorrow, I am waiting for her to wakeup so I can go to the shops and get stuff (paper, cards, batteries etc).

Have a good day everyone
Michelle