The negative comments have begun! *vent*

**Tanya** · February 3rd, 2009, 08:14 AM

I wouldn't call her a 'friend' just someone I know... and I would expect this to come from her, cause she is...hmmm... well not very classy.

I dunno.. I might just leave it and if anything eles is said I will just delete her (afer letting her know)... no loss to me!

**Rivlas** · February 3rd, 2009, 09:38 AM

Both my husband and my self are from 7 children families and both parents 7th child was unplanned. But the joy they both bought.

How many children you have is no one else's business whether planned or unplanned.

I would delete her from your list of friends.

**Kitt3n** · February 3rd, 2009, 09:58 AM

Tanya, your friends comments are just disgusting!

You are lucky enough to be able to have babies, so you are doing so, and its making you and your family happy, so maybe that person should learn how to "swallow" their own comments!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

CONGRATULATIONS by the way! I think you are so very lucky to have #5 on the way!!

**MantaRay** · February 3rd, 2009, 09:59 AM

Tanya. That is really awful that someone would do that. It's very annoying that she didn't think about your feelings. Is she a close friend? If so, perhaps you could let her know that she has upset you. Otherwise, maybe just stop contact with her. It doesn't sound like it would be any great loss to you!

**myson** · February 3rd, 2009, 11:02 AM

that is disgusting.

something i have learned lately .. (after having house of rellies for the holidays)

stop and ask yourself.... "is this persons opinion important to me"

then no matter what the answer... go and eat some chocolate.

We love you Tanya, and your beautiful family.

**Rivlas** · February 3rd, 2009, 11:18 AM

[QUOTE] then no matter what the answer... go and eat some chocolate.

I think that should be the solution to all problems

**kitten76** · February 3rd, 2009, 11:23 AM

What a classy thing to say,
Ive had people comment on my pregnancy. Things like " dont you own a TV" Another BB gal told me to tell them that DH and I find sex so much more exciting than TV and maybe they should try it.
I agree with the others, say something really sarcastic then delete her a$$. Pregnancy is stressful enough without having people like that in your ear.

BTW

for your 5th pregnancy, supermum

CathieW · February 3rd, 2009, 11:33 AM

Tanya Big

for you.
Congrates NO 5 how wonderful.
When we were expecting number 4,5 Twins well I got are you sure you have had enough yet, Do you want a football team,Are you having any more, Your getting too old to have any more children. When I tell people that I would Love just one more people look at me as if I'm a freak. Don't worry who cares what people think as long as you and your hubby are happy. She is no friend.

Cathie

**Epacris** · February 3rd, 2009, 11:35 AM

Tanya, a comment like that would upset me too. It's just so ridiculously rude! Massive hugs to you

I think you have an absolutely wonderfully, beautiful family!

(Myson - loved your advice, I might remember that for myself too).

**S'rose** · February 3rd, 2009, 11:53 AM

Oh Tanya, I just feel your pain hun. To be judged by those who don't know better is the worst pain.

I hope you can release her comment from yourself soon, and try to enjoy this unexpected baby in your family. More power to you for having that much love to give to all of your children.
I think its admirable and strong and absolutely amazing of you to be in such a wonderful family environment. May this new addition just make it all that much better again.
Congratulations is all I have to say.

**Visitor8** · February 3rd, 2009, 05:41 PM

or you could write "I would have swollowed but my throat was sore, and my butt hole so full it was coming out my nose"

Stupid rude cow!

**squidipa** · February 3rd, 2009, 05:46 PM

or you could write "I would have swollowed but my throat was sore, and my butt hole so full it was coming out my nose"

Stupid rude cow!

hahaha

**mbear** · February 3rd, 2009, 05:53 PM

Gosh....ive had a few nasty comments myself, but nothing like that. I agree, she is sooooo jealous.

More recently ive had:
"Im pregnant"
reply: "God, go the mini bus" !!!!!!!!!!-(no congrats or anything....)
or
"We're pregnant"
reply:"Well, you two really need to find a new hobby"............

Both hurtful comments, both comments ive ignored, but now and then they creep back into my mind.

ETA: i love the swallow that comment......that is gold......

Hugs hun...

**chepie** · February 3rd, 2009, 06:00 PM

Tanya... wow what a total B*tch...... who is this person and where is she because she deserves a total smack down!!!!......... I was so excited to read that you are pregnant and that I am able to share the journey with you again

.... you are a truely amazing woman and a inspiring mother xxxxx