Oh Tanya, I just feel your pain hun. To be judged by those who don't know better is the worst pain.

I hope you can release her comment from yourself soon, and try to enjoy this unexpected baby in your family. More power to you for having that much love to give to all of your children.
I think its admirable and strong and absolutely amazing of you to be in such a wonderful family environment. May this new addition just make it all that much better again.
Congratulations is all I have to say.