i do get ya ,,,i get the melt downs as well ,,, wat makes it worse for me is we have had our house built 6mths ago ,, perfect as every new house is when u first start out now,, i look at it an think this place is going to be trashed in the next few yrs as it already is ,, messy rooms,,, dirty walls .// did i mention bombed rooms ,,, dirty floors , bathrooms all the rest , but i just d wat i can . i like to try to have my kitchen clean ,as itsmy main feature when u walk in the house , i t try to get on to the kids with the jobs that are randomly asked eg, bins, dishes, animals clean rooms ..

any little bit helps me ,, so just keep at them thats all i do ..

i tottaly am with you thoughxxxx